2021.09.17 20:55 Outside_Ride_3121 Me (23 F) and my girlfriend (25 F) fought last weekend & it feels like everything is riding on our talk tonight.
Background (feel free to skim since it's a lot): My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now (4/5 months) and it’s been a bit of a whirlwind since the beginning. I fell for her extremely fast, but she had gotten out of a serious relationship about 6 months prior to us dating and I made sure that I never pushed our relationship, I always let her “steer” since in her previous one, she felt like her partner pressured her at every turn.
Less than a month ago, she called me one night and told me that she loved me and I told her that I was in love with her too. Things we’re going really well after that and then she got stressed with work/her family and it felt like she was pulling away. We had a discussion about that and I could tell that she was still in ‘shut down’ mode to a certain degree, but she agreed that we were an official couple and that she was in love with me, just under a lot of stress. She was going away for a work trip and we agreed to talk about it whenever she was back.
Flash-forward to last week, she surprised me by showing up earlier than expected and took that week off from work and we spent the next couple of days just enjoying each others company, sleeping together, hanging out with our mutual friends and just getting to bask in the “love and official relationship”. It was everything I wanted and it honestly was like a dream come true. Then we went out last Saturday and everything went down hill. We were out at dinner with some of our friends and we had been drinking some, and I catch her texting a girl that she had told me about in the past, they had slept together a couple of times but that was it. When she noticed, she quickly closed her phone put it away. I got very jealous and upset and pulled her off to the side and admittedly didn’t react in a manner that was respectful or calm. I asked why the fuck she was talking to her and she said “we’re just friends. She is going through a rough time right now and I’ve been ignoring her all week since I’ve been with you. Some of our mutual friends have tried setting us up but I told her that I have a girlfriend and it’s not happening.” And I was still angry and said I didn’t want her speaking with her (wrong I know). We left the restaurant and went back to my place and proceeded to fight for the next hour.
I apologized for how I reacted and just accusing her, rather than asking in a calm manner and that I didn’t show her any trust. She said that “I’m not going to tell her who she can or cannot be friends with, and that she is friends with plenty of people she has slept with in the past.” I agreed and said I didn’t want to dictate her life, but I wish she had just been honest about that stuff.
She proceeded to completely detach and said that “This is why I hesitated dating you in the first place.” and that she supposedly isn’t happy with me or herself or this relationship. I said that couldn’t be true because of how well everything had gone up to this point, this was the first issue/fight and that couples do that. She said this no longer felt fun or easy and she needed time to think. She packed her stuff and left. We have only spoken over text and it’s been somewhat stilted. I apologized again for how I reacted and hope that she could forgive me.
Advice Needed: Tonight we are having the “talk”. She said she needed this week to think and now she is ready to discuss her thoughts and feeling and to hear mine. I want this relationship to work so badly, the thought of never getting to kiss her or laugh with her or hold her again makes me sick to my stomach. I hate that my moment of being stupid and irrational might ruin everything. I want to say the right thing and I want us to grow from this and forgive each other and become a stronger couple. I love her so much and she’s been the best partner I’ve ever had. She calm, gentle and shows her love for me through Acts of Service and the thought that this could be the end makes me want to curl up and sob. I would do just about anything for her.
Is there anything I could say that would make an impact? Is there anything I could promise to do that would give her faith in me and my trust in her again? How can I be better for her and this relationship? I see us having a future together, if we can get past this fight and work on our communication.
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2021.09.17 20:55 ChristianM1ngl3 Space Anime
Hey, do you guys know any good space anime? Preferably action based, but anything in space is a good recommendation. I'm looking for something along the lines of gargantia on the verdurous planet
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2021.09.17 20:55 mschwartzvc38 Finally, its in my hands. 😍
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2021.09.17 20:55 spectreaqu This is how they treat Georgians in Gali (ქართულად არის)
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2021.09.17 20:55 AresIII Mace Windu "The Colony" (Screenplay - Original Pilot)
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2021.09.17 20:55 Spacexcake Ever since MK11 added Terminator I’ve imagined what T-1000 from Terminator 2 would be like in Kombat 🤔 Probably awesome.
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2021.09.17 20:55 goforth1457 U.S. to buy millions of Pfizer vaccine doses to donate to world -Washington Post
2021.09.17 20:55 psilocybincutie 2 days after dumping my stalled UB bags into ziplocks with some agar chunks! the front one had visible myc growth when I dumped it and the back one didn’t so I believe that’s why they’re so drastically different
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2021.09.17 20:55 Fortifarse84 New lunch box and ID holder for school! Couldn't help myself lol
2021.09.17 20:55 DARKSIED125790 THE ENDING WAS INCREDIBLE!
It was absolutely hilarious, emotional at the same time. And what I liked was the continuity of the old jokes the classic twists, Everything.
And with that note I'll be leaving this sub. It was a great journey and it was my absolute pleasure to be a part of it.
Thank you Goodbye
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2021.09.17 20:55 reddit_hater [USA-OH] [H] Z390 Godlike + 9900k combo [W] PayPal
Hello all. Today I have the best of Intel's 9th generation for sale. I recently moved onto ITX and both of these have just been sitting around. I'd love to change that and send them to a good home! appreciated.
The MSI Z390 Godlike is an amazing board, the absolute best of the best when it comes to Z390. This was purchased originally from another Redditor, is in great condition aside from a tiny scratch or two which will be covered by the GPU. Includes all original accessories and packaging (except a couple of the SETA cords which I'll be keeping sorry!), such as Wi-Fi antenna and extra NVME SODIMM.
The 9900k was purchased around 6 months ago and includes the remainder of a 2 year warranty from microcenter (will provide receipt upon request after purchase). It has run cool during its life and never under excessive voltage.
I'm asking $550 shipped for the combo, via PayPal G&S. Please have some trades in your history. Currently not considering breaking up the set. PMs only please, comment first.
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2021.09.17 20:55 monteverde_org Xiaomi POCO M2 Pro, Redmi Note 9S/Note 9 Pro/Note 9 Pro Max Now Officially Supported
As you can see in the wiki these devices are now officially supported with LineageOS 18.1: Xiaomi POCO M2 Pro / Redmi Note 9S / Redmi Note 9 Pro / Redmi Note 9 Pro Max (miatoll).
Supported models * M2003J6A1G * M2003J6A1I * M2003J6B1I * M2003J6B2G * M2003J6CI
Nice to see recent devices with Snapdragon 720G added to the roster.
Note that it may take up to 1 week for the 18.1 installation packages & Lineage recovery to become available if all goes well with the Lineage automated builder.
Thanks to the volunteer maintainer dereference23. ↑ (ツ)
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2021.09.17 20:55 Garcimorez What are your thoughts on this sketch
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2021.09.17 20:55 Djllam Videos that can help me get better at aerials
2021.09.17 20:55 404-ghostboy Zylbrad youtooz concept. As well as cowboy zylbrad
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2021.09.17 20:55 ClitoralHit Can you look at my blood work (recovering from anemia and some figures are weird)?
24F, 5"3, 105 lbs,
So I started to get headaches with a racing heart, it would come on sporadically and then it became more frequent and then I occasionally got a skipped heartbeat too. This happened slowly over about 6 months. Dr said anemia from iron deficiency, but I couldn't get blood work done to confirm it because of COVID. He put me on Ferroglobin (a multi supplement from the UK) and I felt much better. Finally got blood work done after a little more than a month on supplements, but it doesn't look like I'll be able to see a Dr for some time. Can someone look and reassure me I'm alright? Why is my Hemoglobin, RBC, and PCV high if I was supposed to have anemia?
Here's the blood work (we also checked my thyroids and they're good):
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2021.09.17 20:55 louderthanbxmbs What are the chances of demons being added in Genshin?
Not Onis. The type of demon Xiao and other Yakshas slay. They get mentioned enough due to Xiao and the Yakshas. I don't think the story of the Yakshas or sealed gods in Liyue are quite done yet since the Abyss has grand plans for Osial.
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2021.09.17 20:55 ConradT16 For those that think Negative Beta means every red tick SPY has, GME should have a green tick… this what it actually means. [deleted]
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2021.09.17 20:55 jogrze Failed G Hamilton
Instructor I had was fairly nice however this feels like kind of a petty situation so counter in on what you think actually happened. Today had my G test in Hamilton at noon and I did great on my merging I did great on my three point turn I did great on even my parallel parking however my one critical mistake apparently was coming off the ramp up to the Greenhill stop sign I was going 43 and I didn’t red decelerate fast enough for the instructor and when we got back to drive test the instructor literally said that the speed was the only thing that I messed up and unfortunately it was a critical error and I did not pass my test. Is this like normal or am I upset for no reason I feel like this was pretty petty considering he had said I did the rest of my test really well and even acknowledged how great my observation was.
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2021.09.17 20:55 GuyCarbonneauGOAT Andre Iguodala on Steph Curry: "What he brought to the game that people don't realize is you was looked as soft if you were having too much fun… You look at Barkley, Mason, Oakley…it was weakness if you were smiling on the court. Steph came & started laughing, shimmying & shooting from half-court."
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2021.09.17 20:55 hogw33d Apple Jacks commercial theory
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2021.09.17 20:55 italian_mom From Texas... I am stuck home with a broken humerus bone which is incredibly painful. My daughter turned me on Friday Night Lights and then found this house outside of Austin. Note the sign in the window!
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2021.09.17 20:55 Skermunkel_Studios Please, tell me I'm not crazy?!
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2021.09.17 20:55 Entertainment_Reddit the perfect couple
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